Most probably one of my most overused phrases. Although true in most cases, I have decided to refrain from judging people persay. We'll see how long this will last for. Like a new years revolution really. They generally last for a month or so, maximum.
But with the passing of recent events, i've learnt its best to be nice and smile. So that is my new motto i suppose. 'Be nice + smile'. Although i restrict smiling because of my at times, good for nothing, asian genes i inherited from my chinese mother; fat asian cheeks.
Being nice however should be a little easier. I find girls and their bitchiness to be unnecessary. Yes it's all apart of 'growing up' but it comes to a point where i think some just do it for fun. I don't see how being nasty 24/7 is fun but each to their own.
Of course there are some people i will never get along with no matter how hard i try to but that does not mean i can't exchange a smile in passing and try to be nice. Like my mother says. "You don't have to get along with everyone but you can at least try and be nice". She is probably one of the nicest ladies you will come across. Never voicing a mean word against anyone. I however did not take after my mother but rather, my father and so i feel i should try and be more like her. That does not mean though that i'm striving for perfection and will be a delight to be around only speaking kind words. Naturally, i'll slip up and forget. But i will make a conscious effort to change my behaviour.
And so in closing, if i have ever offended you in the past. I am sorry. But if you're still hung up on it or holding a grudge, i mean really. You should have gotten over that by now. So, like the picture up top. "Let (it) go".
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